Ever notice how you feel when someone questions your motives or actions?
“Why did you do THAT?”, “Why did you say that?”
Immediately your body goes on the defensive and braces for a compelling argument to prove yourself.
Your words take on a reactive tone and the other person responds in kind. Feelings take over. Logic doesn’t stand much of a chance and nobody gets out unscathed.
Here... watch this 👇🏽