You are the problem in your relationships! Now I know that may sound a bit harsh, but it's true.
When I found out my husband was falling in love with another woman, I was hurt and mad at him. How could he do this to me? (victim)
But, when I took a good, hard and long look at myself, I realized that I shared the "blame" for the disconnect that was happening in our relationship.
Yes, I was part of the problem. That was a hard pill to swallow. But the pill of responsibility was a necessary pill for us both to swallow if we were ever going to create a breakthrough from the breakdown.
Now I know that you have relationships that are suffering from the effects of division of beliefs and opinions in this world of covid, politics and race relations.
It may be in your home, your family, your work or your communities, but it's there.
Maybe you've stopped speaking to people. Maybe you are avoiding certain subjects. Maybe you are just mad because you can't believe how someone could think a certain way.
I get it. This year has been eye-opening to say the least. And now, with the holidays coming up, whether in person or on zoom, how are you going to reconnect and find joy with people who have such different beliefs from you?
Well, take a look at who you are being in those relationships. How are you showing up? How are you making people feel in these interactions?
When my relationship was on the rocks, I saw clearly how my way of being was contributing to the disconnection we were experiencing.
It was my Relationship Style that was causing me to show up in a way that was sabotaging my relationship and I didn't even see it coming.
I've created a masterclass training that will help you learn the different Relationship Styles and how they show up in a way that damages your relationships.
This training will show you what these styles are, their origin, their traits and how you can identify where they are causing breakdown in your relationships.
This is my signature, eye-opening training that is the foundation for building a high performance life and relationships.
What you learn from this masterclass will give you greater insight in how to repair, connect and build powerful relationships.... even with people who disagree with you.
We are about to start a new year with hope and promise. But the stain of 2020 will not be easily removed. It will take some deep, intentional work and responsibility to grow from this experience.
This is a fraction of the first step. You have to know yourself before you can grow yourself. Taking a look at your Relationship Style is the first step in how you can have happier, healthier, more intimate relationships in every area of your life,
