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Notice where conflict is showing up these days. Where there is conflict, there's lack of influence.
Everywhere you look, people are trying to influence you with their views and opinions on politics, COVID 19, racism and more.
But all you are see are accusations, defensiveness, divisiveness and conflict.
No one seems to be willing to be open to listening and learning. We want to be right and righteous about where we stand on any given subject.
When everyone is convinced that they are right, there is conflict. And, we cannot influence in a state of conflict.
"The minute you think you know, puts you in righteousness and superiority."
As a result, we are left with anger, frustration and broken relationships. Instead of coming together, we are drifting further apart.
Neither side is willing to consider a different perspective. It's more important to be right than to be happy.
If you want the people in your life to see things from your perspective, you've got to learn the skill of influence.
How can you be immediately more influential at home, at work and in your communities?
How can you have these intimate, emotional conversations in a way that brings you together and challenges how you think?
If you want to know what is really involved in developing the skill of influence, let me know. Learning how to have these conversations, and have them be transformative, is a skill of high performance.
Influential people share these 3 traits.
- They teach how HOW to think
- They Challenge us to Stretch
- They Become Role Models
Ready to uplevel your skills of influence? I'm ready to help you.
Book an
INTIMACY AWARENESS BOOSTER CALL with me, so that you can develop the skills that it takes to have influence and impact at home, at work and in your communities.
